Wednesday, October 19, 2005

What is it that you seek in a partner? Does he/she have to understand you totally? Or do you not want him/her to understand you entirely, 'cause it'll be too dangerous to know a person that well?
Do you want to share everything with her? Your innermost fears, ambitions, emotions - all that you have?
Is having a partner all about companionship - having a best friend who is more than your 'best-est' friend, (a bosom buddy, if u may, pun intended) - or is it all about committment?
Yes I know that not all things can be be as clear as black and white.
But what shades of grey are you willing to accept? What blend of colours, if you will, do you want in a relationship, a commitment, a life-long promise you just have to keep?
Its interesting, isn't it, all these... chemicals swirling around in your head. How they interact, how they form such curious bonds, and persist in their set ways at the trigger of an event.
Yes I am still the cynical single man who believes that love can happen between almost any 2 people in the world, and can be controlled by the mind.
Its all in the mind, as they say.
Well, or the brain.

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